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Friday, 15 December 2017

STAYING IN YOUR LANE


Staying in your lane... what I mean by this is always do you. Social media and the concept of forever being on our phones, seeing peoples 'life' sprayed all over the internet wondering if we could have a life like theirs or feeling completely shadowed by the internet. It's normal, we all do it. I have days where I have no inspiration, I don't know what pictures to shoot for my instagram or what to blog about next. Then you hop online and see everyones creativity and outbursts of content all around you, it can sometimes get so overwhelming. 

I have seen a lot on social media lately with people saying they are taking a break from blogging and having some much needed time off because its all getting to much. I get that, it can be so overwhelming and you can put yourself under so much pressure that your brain just needs to take a step back. But I also say 'stay in your lane'. Social media and people sharing shouldn't knock you down or give you a mental block, let it give you inspiration and really find your niche. 

Instead of being sucked in with peoples 'insta life' get to know people in the industry, talk. Message people that inspire you, support each other and make new friends. I love to learn and see how different people blog and what they love to blog about. Stay connected, don't just look at a photograph and make an assumption of people or their life. An insta life is exactly what it says on the tin, its on instagram. It's the pictures people choose to share, the ones to keep people interested. You can be apart of the community and not feel consumed by it, you just have to find your place and do what you want to do.


My concept of 'staying in your lane' comes in so many aspects for me, ever had 'friends' that feel the need to copy or mimic what you do? I have, it's exhausting and frustrating. What I have learnt while blogging so far is this. No one can be you, no one can be me. No matter what other people are doing, even if it's something that really gets on your nerves, let it be. Thats not your lane and your not in it.

I am someone who use to care a lot what people thought of me, but then I grew up. I changed, I did this. I created my own blog and I did me. For so long I felt I wasn't good enough to do this or none would be interested in my blog. But then I thought 'fuck it' I want to do it, for me, none else. This is my life and if I want to do something I am passionate about, then I will. Not everyone will like you, a lot of people will slag you or slate you. Thats okay, thats what they want to do, don't let their opinion effect you, always stay in your lane.


 If you are blogging or struggling to find your place, it's okay. Everyones life is different but its their own. I feel I have changed so much since I started blogging, at first I didn't really know what to shoot or how to be on the internet. Then I realised, being me is my super power, sounds cheesy I know. I just mean that theres only one of me (as far as I know) and my blog is for me to do exactly that. If you don't know exactly who you are yet or what you want to do. Stay focused, don't give up and stay in your lane.

Also I am not a huge blogger, I have goals and things I would love to do and targets I would dream of meeting. I am new to this, I am growing and learning day by day. I only began to really focus on my blog late this year. But I don't stress about that anymore. What happens, happens. Theres no pressure, theres just me and my blog. It will take me where it does, but I won't give up because this is what I love to do. Staying in my lane is exactly what I will do and doing so means that I can never be disappointed in any aspect of my life, because I am taking charge of it.

Stay in your lane and don't ever let anyone take charge of it, its your life.

 Fashion Bambi 
xoxo

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Monday, 27 November 2017

THE BEST YEAR FOR CYBER DEALS, EVER?!


Is it just me or have the online cyber deals been better this year than they ever have been?

Normally I find Black Friday/Cyber Weekend rather stressful and I tend to stay away from the online and in store mayhem! The deals never seem to be that great, and you end up spending money just for the sake of it being on 'sale' or having 'money off'. When in fact most places are only offering 20% off which is no different from deals throughout the year. I always found it overrated and not really beneficial because if you did find a good deal they either didn't have your size or the website is that busy you are put into a line. Which by the time you get onto the website most of the stuff is gone or the website keeps breaking down.

Also lets be honest, most of us are at work so how can we get a deal that comes online just as were starting our day at work, I mean black Friday is on a day most people work so by the time everyone gets home to look at the deals theres nothing left. Also I don't know about you but my payday comes after black Friday which means I don't normally have much money left at the end of the month to make big purchases therefor I miss the deals yearly.


But I have to admit this year I have really seen how many online retailers have upped there game offering 50% off everything deals which come on, if your favourite brand or online shop is doing a deal like that you can't say no. I also love the fact some online shops such as Missguided had 50% off everything running the week before black Friday and continuously through cyber weekend. This gave so many more people a chance to shop the discounts on different days.

I have been pleasantly surprised this year with so many online shops having 50% off that I have defiantly had a look this year. I wasn't going to do a blog post on black Fridays deals for the simple fact of them not normally being this good, but because its cyber Monday and there are still some great deals left online I wanted to share some of my favourites with you.

Don't get me wrong I am still pretty much skint as I have been trying to focus on getting christmas presents early, but I have managed to get some great christmas presents through black Friday/cyber weekend which has saved me a lot of money. Everything from fashion, beauty and lifestyle bits have been on amazing deals this year...


FASHION

Missguided - 50% OFF EVERYTHING
Topshop - UP TO 50% OFF
Inthestyle - 40% OFF EVERYTHING
Missy Empire - 30% OFF EVERYTHING
Brand Attic - 50% OFF EVERYTHING
Rebellious Fashion - 35% OFF EVERYTHING
Pretty Little Thing - 32% OFF EVERYTHING
Look Of The Day - UP TO 75% OFF
NA-KD - 30-40% OFF

BEAUTY

Feel Unique - 15% OFF & MYSTERY GIFT
Look Fantastic - 20% OFF
Cult Beauty - Special Offers
The Body Shop - 40% OFF

SHOES/ACCESSORIES

Ideal Of Sweden - 50% OFF EVERYTHING
Skinny Dip London - UP TO 80% OFF EVERYTHING
Urban Outfitters - UP TO 70% OFF
Public Desire - 30% OFF EVERYTHING
Coconut Lane - 50% OFF
Ego Official - 30% OFF EVERYTHING


OUTFIT DETAILS

COAT - NEW LOOK
BODYSUIT - MISSGUIDED
TROUSERS - MONKI
TRAINERS - OFFICE
CAP - LAMODA
CHOCKER - RIVER ISLAND 


I hope you all enjoyed this post and managed to get some great bargains over black Friday and cyber weekend.

Fashion Bambi
xoxo
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Wednesday, 15 November 2017

PIZZA LOVING

 T-SHIRT - MISSY EMPIRE
JACKET - PULL AND BEAR
 TROUSERS - TOPSHOP
TRAINERS - VANS
 HAT - LAMODA
PHONE CASE - IDEAL OF SWEDEN
 IDEAL OF SWEDEN 20% OFF DISCOUNT CODE - idealaw

    

FASHION BAMBI
XOXO
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Wednesday, 8 November 2017

BABE.

JACKET - TOPSHOP
BODYSUIT - INTHESTYLE
JEANS - MARKS AND SPENCERS
BOOTS - BRAND ATTIC
CAP - NEW ERA
CHOCKER - PULL AND BEAR

   

 Fashion Bambi
xoxo
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Tuesday, 31 October 2017

HAPPY HALLOWEEN


TOP - MISSPAP
TROUSERS - MONKI


COAT - TOPSHOP
BOOTS - BRAND ATTIC


NECKLACE - ELLYPINX
LIPSTICK - LOREAL PARIS


HAPPY HALLOWEEN EVERYONE!!

   

Fashion Bambi
xoxo
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